Proper Hosting Etiquette

My husband and I are hosting his best friend from high school for a few days, and while I am mildly put out at the idea of picking up after two boys for a week, I do believe that hosting etiquette is very important. Here are some tips on how to be the best possible host:

1. Be Unfailingly Cheerful. No domestic squabbles; no chiding your guests for anything at all (including leaving their jackets/suitcases/dirty towels/dishes in the middle of the floor).

2. Don’t Overwhelm Your Guests When They Arrive. Hand them a drink (coffee, a soft drink, or wine, depending on the hour), show them around briefly, and then let them be. They’ve been traveling all day; now is their first opportunity to relax.

3. Make Sure They Are Comfortable. If they’re staying for more than two nights, make sure they have a key so they don’t feel like they’re a burden.

4. Bake Something (even Pillsbury chocolate chip cookies do the trick). It makes the apartment smell nice, and it lets them know that there’s something for them to eat. A floral arrangement by their bed is also a lovely touch.

Jordan Reid is the "Domestic Bliss" specialist at NonSociety.com, where she writes about cooking, entertaining, home decor, DIY projects, and married life in general.

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