Etiquette on Expressing Congratulations to a New Mom

Welcoming a new baby to the world is an exciting time for everyone. In your rush to congratulate remember to follow these simple guidelines when you visit a new mom and her newborn.

• Give a Call. You should always call before stopping by; never drop by unannounced! Baby could be sleeping.

• Keep It Short. 10-15 minutes is an appropriate time to visit a new mom. Longer than 15 minutes may tire out the new mom and the baby.

• Avoid a Mob Scene. Too many visitors at once will overwhelm the new mom and possibly delay healing.

• If You are Sick, Stay Home! The last thing a new mom wants is germs and the chance of catching a bug. If your feeling ill, visit the new mom another day.

• Keep It Clean. Unless you have washed your hands first, never hold or touch the baby.

• Share the Happiness. Although this is a special time in the mother’s life, it is important to keep conversations upbeat.

• Make Siblings Feel Special. Consider brothers and sisters and help make them feel special with a gift or a toy. A small surprise makes them feel part of the celebration!